Manners. One word with so much attached to it.
Between my parents and my kindergarten teacher I learned the basics and nuances of good behavior that have served me well both personally and professionally. I remember: play nicely with others; wait your turn; treat others they way you would want them to treat you. But most importantly: remember to say "May I, Please and Thank you."
It all seems so simple, yet so difficult for some, for reasons I can not comprehend. It shouldn't be a 'stand-out' in our minds when we experience good manners, but how often do we find ourselves commenting when we are treated properly? And how often are we pushed to the brink (or even over it) when we are faced with rudeness?
Some would say "lead by example." (A true Emily Post...oh, how I date myself, response.) But I have to admit, I think that is overly optimistic. Others might call for action by providing corrective instruction. But that might lead to negative physical repercussions.
May I ask if anyone has the answer? If so, please share with me. Oh, and "Thank you!"
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I don't have the answer, but I think you're on the right track with leading by example. If we can affect those in our own circle, maybe it can radiate from there. Or we could try Sheldon Cooper's method of positive reinforcement. "Have a candy, Pennie?"
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